Salaried Worker Vs Volunteers

When will I be volunteering my time for people?

I'll do that when I have earned enough, worked enough and am planning for retirement. For now, I will just donate to support the work of charity organisations.

The recent charity sagas have turned me off entirely. Giving higher volume of work as a justification for higher pay is lame considering one is in a charity line of work. Neither is it justifiable to take it as given when the board of directors are the one deciding it.

In reality, a person can't possibly be squeezed to work 24 hours a day for a prolong period. It makes more sense to get more helpers to share the workload. This will also help to create more work opportunities given the high unemployment rate in Singapore.

Brainiest Vs Stupidest In R/S

Rule #1
B: Pretend to trust and wait for him to speak.
S: Confront him if he remains silence.

Rule #2
B: Always says, "I am okay." with a smile.
S: Always says, "What do you think?" with a serious look.

Rule #3
B: Hire a PI if in doubt. But keep the results to yourself.
S: Checking on him and start unconstructive questioning session.

Rule #4
B: Give room to him if he is troubled.
S: Keep asking why why and forever why?

Rule #5
B: Keep quiet though he made mistake. Show him the hint in case he's going to repeat the same mistake.
S: Remind him of his mistake and the consequences.

Rule #6
B: Tell him how fortunate you are with him.
S: Be frank to him of his weaknesses. And then, with sarcasm, "Though you are like that, I still want to be with you."

Rule #7
B: Leave him quietly when you found him unfaithful. He will never be faithful even if he says, "Don't leave me, I'll change for you."
S: Stay around and looking for an explanation of his unfaithfulness.

Rule #8
B: Say thank you to him right after every meals and he'll pay the bill.
S: Pay for the bill in consideration of his lower income and in return of his company in any meals or dates.

Rule #9
B: Keep quiet though he is barking all the way and leave him if it reaches your tolerance level.
S: Talk back in return and end up with quarrels.

Rule #10
B: Be initiative to prepare for special dates. If he apologise for having had forgotten about it, always answer, "Never mind, let's enjoy now?". Make sure it's a happy day for both. You will just have to sit back for the other special dates.
S: Keep reminding him of the special dates and set the expectations. He'll not prepare anything unless he is forced to and I can guarantee you it will never be a pleasant date.


** It sounds so simple to be the brainiest woman in relationship, but career women simply failed in order to seek for equality. I choose to be stupidest now and will only be brainiest when I found someone kind.