Salaried Worker Vs Volunteers

When will I be volunteering my time for people?

I'll do that when I have earned enough, worked enough and am planning for retirement. For now, I will just donate to support the work of charity organisations.

The recent charity sagas have turned me off entirely. Giving higher volume of work as a justification for higher pay is lame considering one is in a charity line of work. Neither is it justifiable to take it as given when the board of directors are the one deciding it.

In reality, a person can't possibly be squeezed to work 24 hours a day for a prolong period. It makes more sense to get more helpers to share the workload. This will also help to create more work opportunities given the high unemployment rate in Singapore.

Brainiest Vs Stupidest In R/S

Rule #1
B: Pretend to trust and wait for him to speak.
S: Confront him if he remains silence.

Rule #2
B: Always says, "I am okay." with a smile.
S: Always says, "What do you think?" with a serious look.

Rule #3
B: Hire a PI if in doubt. But keep the results to yourself.
S: Checking on him and start unconstructive questioning session.

Rule #4
B: Give room to him if he is troubled.
S: Keep asking why why and forever why?

Rule #5
B: Keep quiet though he made mistake. Show him the hint in case he's going to repeat the same mistake.
S: Remind him of his mistake and the consequences.

Rule #6
B: Tell him how fortunate you are with him.
S: Be frank to him of his weaknesses. And then, with sarcasm, "Though you are like that, I still want to be with you."

Rule #7
B: Leave him quietly when you found him unfaithful. He will never be faithful even if he says, "Don't leave me, I'll change for you."
S: Stay around and looking for an explanation of his unfaithfulness.

Rule #8
B: Say thank you to him right after every meals and he'll pay the bill.
S: Pay for the bill in consideration of his lower income and in return of his company in any meals or dates.

Rule #9
B: Keep quiet though he is barking all the way and leave him if it reaches your tolerance level.
S: Talk back in return and end up with quarrels.

Rule #10
B: Be initiative to prepare for special dates. If he apologise for having had forgotten about it, always answer, "Never mind, let's enjoy now?". Make sure it's a happy day for both. You will just have to sit back for the other special dates.
S: Keep reminding him of the special dates and set the expectations. He'll not prepare anything unless he is forced to and I can guarantee you it will never be a pleasant date.


** It sounds so simple to be the brainiest woman in relationship, but career women simply failed in order to seek for equality. I choose to be stupidest now and will only be brainiest when I found someone kind.

LOST

I've been through this stage a couple of times before - Looking Objectives Setting Time
Everytime, I was so energised and move on with my life quickily.

This time round, it was so tough for me. For 2 months, I've been wondering. Almost wanted to give it up... until I met someone who has achieved much more than I've ever met and able to strike the balance between work and life. I'm inspired by him and his work.

I'm so happy today and went for rollerblading, swimming and hair spa. During the activities, I can't even stop myself from thinking of things that I wanted to do in this coming year or next. So, *phew* I'm back on track again seeking for the right objective this time.

A Good Listener

When I'm still a little girl -
*.* All I want for christmas is my two front teeth
*.* my two front teeth
*.* my two front teeth

and Now -
^.^ All I want for comfort is a true listener
^.^ a true listener
^.^ a true listener...

Just something to remind myself to treasure ppl who care about me...

Dancing Queen

Oh today, I'm seriously into teaching my girl to dance.

The day before I was still teaching her the "grand jete" - the classical flying stunt. But today... it is something wild and sexy - Do Somethin'

Amazingly all the dance moves flying all over my head when I hear the music. It's so satifying as if I'm once again at my uni days. I feel so young and hot.

Self-Esteem Snatchers

Many of you may have met one or, for the unlucky one like me have met a bunch of them. Why are they such jerks to all women? Let's just study the following example:

Chic: I'm kind of like the dish very much. Isn’t it a blessing to have it again for tomorrow's dinner?
Snatcher: Remember how good you looked in your bikini last year?

…total silence…

To Snatchers, how great does that make the women? Instead “Is He Mr Right” will give you more advice to be nice and gentle to the Venus.

To Chic, why wait? Let’s just get them off our life and regain what we deserved – our Self-esteem.

Confidence is the essence for woman to stay attractive and satisfied. It comes from different aspect of intelligence – knowledge, fashion, aesthetic and etc. For me, I want to have them all!

To classify self-esteem snatchers, there are those who are genuinely cruel and there are those who are blokeishly insensitive. Shouldn’t have to waste much time on the former ones but the latter are just the curable medical condition called Being A Man.

** please feel free to contribute your idea on how to get rid of blokeishly insensitive men **